The Tragedy of Unneeded Tragedies

I was saddened today to hear the news of Phillip Seymour Hoffman’s death. What a tragedy that such a talented man would be self-destructive with drugs!  It has happened to so many – Elvis, Marilyn, Michael Jackson, Whitney Houston…what is missing in the lives of these incredible human beings, so talented, yet so unhappy?  

Love.  Self-love.  When success and self-doubt rule over self-care and self-acceptance, the seeds of tragedy are sown.  This certainly underscores that success can be fatal, unless accompanied by a clear sense that we’re all equal, that there’s nothing to prove, and that we are loveable just the way we are no matter what the expectations of others. 

 How well are you treating yourself?  As you pursue your success, are you aware it is all a game, and that you remembering who you are (love) is more important than what you accomplish?  Wouldn’t it be a sad thing for any of us to reach the end of our life, and all we have to show for it is a bunch of achievements? 

Do not sell your soul in pursuing your dreams unless you also maintain the commitment that caring for yourself comes ahead of any achievement or fame one could attain.